THE BOX HAMBURG

An event in the Nina Deißler - Das Schweigen der Männer series | The Box - Borselhof/OttensenWe can find out in seconds what the weather will be like in New York and ask artificial intelligence what lies ahead for humanity. But when someone we like replies to our message with just “Okay.”, we suddenly find ourselves like archaeologists confronted with a previously unknown hieroglyph.Welcome to love. In “Das Schweigen der Männer”, relationship expert and author Nina Deißler takes the audience on a journey through dating, attraction, communication, and the everyday madness between (at least) two people—both intelligent and hilarious. Why do we fall in love with precisely those people who later force us to ask our friends for an assessment? Why are we so fond of mistaking excitement for attraction? Why do people say “It’s okay” when everyone in the room knows: It’s absolutely not okay? Who is actually stupider—men or women? And why are we confident adults at work, yet suddenly interpret three dots in a WhatsApp message when dating?For more than 25 years, Nina Deißler has professionally explored why love sounds so simple—until you try it. And at some point, you realize: Men and women may not be as mysterious as we think. We are simply exceptionally creative when it comes to turning attraction into destiny, silence into a message, and a mediocre date into a three-hour briefing with our best friend.